How To Get Any Woman Back To Your Place

[Stephan Bobb]

How To Get Any Woman Back To Your Place

If only you knew how many single, beautiful women are out there spending their nights alone, longing for a boyfriend. With today's hectic work schedules, both men and women have very little time to socialize and meet long-term lovers. Consequently, there are a lot of lonely people in the world.

The fact of the matter is that millions of women are tired of hiding behind their virtuous masks. If they can't find the time to get to know a man who will satisfy their emotional needs, then they're going to settle for the physical contact a man can provide in order to satisfy their current short-term sexual desires.

Do It! Bust A Move

Regrettably, very few men know how to take advantage of such opportunities and what you end up with is a lot of potentially horny women going home alone to play with their friendly vibrating rabbits. All this nonsense could be avoided if only men knew how to do the pickup game.

Well, in light of the good ol' words of Sting:

Don't think me unkind,
Words are hard to find,
They're only checks I've left unsigned,
From the banks of chaos in my mind,
And when their eloquence escapes me,
Their logic ties me up...
De do do do, de da da da 
Is all I want to say to you. 
- The Police

Conquer The S-Factor

In general, most women are turned off by the notion of one-night stands because it makes them feel dirty and cheap. However, if you can take the same situation and present it in another, more romantic manner (like making love to a stranger who sweeps them off their feet and makes them feel like true women), then they'd be more inclined to the idea of satisfying their sexual cravings with a stranger.

In order to achieve this, you must help her overcome the S-factor ("Slut Factor"), which dictates that any woman who initiates any type of sexual activity with a man she recently met or whom she's not in a relationship with is an easy acquisition or worse, a slut. This is a label that all women hate and dread.

Therefore, the only way to overcome this factor is by making all the right moves and making her feel as if she is in no way guilty of doing anything wrong. In other words, you've got to do things in order to make things happen. Because in this case, good things will not come to those who wait.

So that's exactly what I'm going to provide you with today; a step-by-step guide to picking up women and taking them back to your place.

It's time to do your thing...

Do Your Thing

Of course, I assume that you already know the importance of proper preparation such as dressing style, clean grooming habits, a good sense of humor, charming qualities, and no fear of rejection. Only once you address all these factors can you begin with the four-step process:

Step 1: Do the pickup thing
Step 2: Do the date thing
Step 3: Do make her horny
Step 4: Do her

Step 1: "Do" The Pickup Thing

You're not going to meet anyone by standing around all night wishing to meet someone. So stop rubbing your beer bottle (there's no genie in there) and hit the dance floor. Get out of that corner you're hiding in and introduce yourself to a few ladies.

Look around until you see a few women that seem available or give you the "I'm single and interested" look. Once you find your target, it is important that you establish eye contact to see if there is any interest on her part in order to avoid wasting time.

If you get the green light, act quickly. Remember that the three-second rule applies here. You must approach your target as soon as possible in order to make a good, confident impression. 

Clear your throat before approaching her and then in a clear tone say something like, "Hi, what's your name?" Then follow through with a negative hit in order to break the ice and get her attention. During the initial conversation, keep the following points in mind:

• Maintain good eye contact.
• Let her ask your name; don't volunteer that information. Interested women ask.
• Be respectful, but don't be too gentlemanly during your conversation. In short, don't be her doormat.
• Make sure she feels safe and secure.
• Keep the topic of conversation focused on her.
• Get her to smile. Be funny. Tell a few jokes.
• Treat her like a "friend" and not like a potential girlfriend. Too many men fall victim to becoming the eager enchanter too soon. Remember, she's the lonely one; you are the prize.

• Ask her a few

open-ended questions in order to show genuine interest in her.

• Close the deal. Ask if she'd like to go out for coffee on the spot. If she claims that she's busy, then make a counteroffer. Ask for her phone number in order to set a date. If she asks for your number instead, insist on getting hers. If she's adamant about not handing over her digits, then leave, as she likely won't call. If you give her your number, then you've lost control. Women are not attracted to men that they can easily control; it's simply not exhilarating for them. Maintain control, get her number and make her wait for your call -- never the other way around.

Something else you should be doing ...

Step 2: "Do" The Date Thing

If you have the digits, then you have to make that first phone call count. You need to get her back into that state of mind that got her to give you her number in the first place. Once you achieve this, ask her out for a drink and give her two options during the week.

It is very important that you start the date with some sort of physical contact. Kiss her on the cheeks -- by doing so, you'll get her imagination (about the type of kisser you might be) flowing while simultaneously reading her "physical contact meter" level. However, at this point you shouldn't have much to worry about -- she did agree to the date after all.

A Small Investment

I highly suggest that you start the first date with a minimal investment. You shouldn't be spending too much money on a woman who still hasn't proved that she is worthy of you. Avoid boring and expensive dinners until you know that you want to have a relationship with your new acquaintance.

I propose you first go out to a coffee shop. This way, if you feel that there is no chemistry with her or that she may be a potential psycho, you can leave early without making a dent in your wallet or having to suffer through a two-hour comatose-like conversation.

On the other hand, if you're getting a good vibe and things are going great, you can then upgrade from coffee to alcohol. Leave the coffee shop and take her to a bar or lounge. (Tip: Do it without asking her, women love spontaneity).

Give Her Some Serum

Alcohol (or "truth serum," as I like to call it) tends to make people open up and be a little more candid. This is the time to do a little groundwork and find out a little more about your woman. Here are some of the harmless topics that you can touch base on before moving on to the more interesting topics (remember, you're interviewing her and not the other way around):

- Ask if she's studying and if so, what?
- Ask about her current job. Is it fun? Does she like it?
- Ask about her worst job ever.
- Find out her core values and what she values in life.

Once you've gone through the list of these questions and you had the time to let the alcohol take effect, you can now begin to delve into deeper waters by asking questions that are a little more risqué and whose purpose is to raise her excitement level. Here's what you ask:

- Ask about her favorite dishes. Does she like Chicken Parmesan or does she prefer seafood? (Her answer will come in handy when you invite her back to your place for dinner on some other night).

Get deep into her mind and before you know it...

- Ask about her aspirations.

- Ask about her favorite vacation spot. (If you can afford it, you might want to surprise her once she's proven her worth by taking her there for a weekend).

- Tell her a few interesting stories of your own: one adventure story, one vacation story, one funny story, tell her about how some of your female friends like to tease married men, and tell her about how your female co-workers always talk about their sex lives.

- Ask if she has any sex crazed friends. Tip: Always gauge her comfort level before increasing the sexual innuendo within your questions. If she seems a little uncomfortable, then you might be pushing ahead to hard (no pun intended). But if she opens up with no brakes, then ask away.

- What about her? Ask her about her sexual adventures, fantasies and the craziest things she's ever done. Be prepared to answer the same questions (do so without bragging and then bring the focus back to her).

- Talk about your residence. Tell her about your art collection, your stock photography, or your record or fine wine collection. Tip: This is a good topic that serves to give you a reason to invite her back to your place at a later date. For example:

You: Would you like to see my art collection?
Her: Sure I'd love to!

OR

You: Would you like to see my art collection?
Her: Um, maybe not today. It's getting late.
You: Okay, maybe I'll show it to you some other time.
Her: Yes, I would like that better.

The minimal goal of this date is to get her to feel comfortable around you, and to feel thrilled around your presence in order to secure another date. The best-case scenario is that she's totally into you and you can invite her back to your place right away. 

Otherwise, demonstrate a little patience and tell her you'll call her (maintain the control). It is important that you don't talk about the next date. It's better to let her believe she did something wrong, or wonder if maybe she should have taken you up on your offer.

Do not feel bad if she does not come over to your place. Remember, you can still call her up and invite her back to your place in order to cook her favorite meal: Chicken Parmesan. But no matter what her decision, you must not leave without giving her a passionate kiss. It is what will convince her to see you again or even convince her to go back to your place. The kiss must be great, otherwise it will turn her off... and you don't want that.

It's time to turn her on and get inside...

Step 3: "Do" Get Her Horny

In the event that she takes you up on your offer and comes back home with you, then you have to maintain the same mood you had in the bar or lounge. Ask if she wants to listen to some music. Then play the genre of beats that help heighten whatever emotion you're currently experiencing. I suggest "Served Chilled, Vol.2."

Show her whatever it was that you said you'd show her (no, not your penis, well, not yet... I was referring to your art collection), then slowly work your way to kissing her again. Women love to kiss, especially if you're a good kisser. The trick here is to kiss her for about thirty minutes in order to really work up her excitement. Note: Kissing should start with the lips but should not be limited to that, so feel free to introduce your tongue to her neck, ears, shoulders, and breasts -- you have thirty minutes to enjoy. The ideal outcome is that your kissing will lead her to initiate the next step -- clothing removal.

Keep in mind that some women might indeed get excited, but are afraid to take things to the next level because of the aforementioned S-factor. If this is the case, then you might want to make things easier for her by making the move yourself.

It is essential that you always pay attention to her body language in order to make sure that she accepts your advances. If she really doesn't like it, she will make it obvious. And if she does, then you have to respect her decision -- especially if you want to see her again.

Start to stimulate her pelvic area with your hand over her clothing. If she's receptive -- and she likely will be by this time -- place your hand in her pants (under her skirt) and gently start to stimulate her outer lips until you feel her moisture. Then move your fingers to her clitoral hood in order to stimulate her clitoris. At this point, she will usually guide your hand inside her for more stimulation.

Tip: Remove her clothing in order to get better access, and use her natural fluids to lubricate your knuckles (or use water-based lubrication). Then gently rub your knuckles over her clitoris in a very tender and rocking motion.

Step 4: "Do" Her

At this point, she should be very excited. Put a condom on and gently introduce your manhood to her insides. This is the part where you show her that you know how to treat a lady and that you're all about satisfying your partner.

Take your time to please every single part of her body; make sure that your thrusts are never constant, by keeping them short and slow and then mixing in a few deeper and faster thrusts before reverting back to short and slow thrusts. The idea is to keep her guessing about your rhythm. If you're able to do this, then you can bet that she'll be back for more treats