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HE WANTS THAT ILL NA NA: 5 SIGNS HE IS USING YOU FOR SEX

October 7, 2013 ‐

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We have all dealt with this at some point in our relationships with men, so I am going to break it down for you on the signs he is just using you for sex and doesn’t want a relationship with you. Some of the signs are easy to overlook, but in all honesty you shouldn’t overlook his actions. His words mean nothing unless he shows it to you as well.

1. He only comes late at night. Now, I know sometimes men will come over after their bar hopping, but if he is only making that house call when he is drinking and it is late at night you should know he isn’t interested in anything else but a sexual relationship.

2. He always cancels plans with you. You are looking forward to hanging out with him and as soon as you are supposed to be ready to see him, he sends you a text saying he has to cancel. You are worth having someone show up on time and actually stick to their word! Do not make excuses for him constantly canceling!

3. He never takes you out in public. If you are wanting to date this man he should be taking you out! No excuses! If you two never leave your house or his house you need to start asking yourself why that is?

4. He tells you everything you want to hear, but doesn't show you the things he says.
Actions speak louder than words, so if he's just filling you up with charming and charismatic words, without proving what he says is true, it's time to move on.

5. He is standoffish.
He knows everything about you, but your knowledge of him is limited. Relationships are for learning about each other and seeing if you two are compatible. If he tells you very little about himself, he's either hiding something or he just doesn't want you to know him. Maybe he doesn't think you're compatible for the long-term, or just doesn't want to put in the effort because he knows he's going to move on before you gets too comfortable.

It's easy to ignore these signs, especially when you feel attached or excited about a potential new partner. But the fact is that if he's displaying any of these traits, he is just using you for sex and does not want a relationship with you. Even though it may hurt to admit this, you deserve more than someone who doesn't care about you.